The Assorted Love Stories of LadyLindsay

ur an idoit

2011-12-04T12:13:57.905-08:00

ur an idoit

Oh the, "we're having fabulous sex but ar...

2009-12-02T21:05:19.820-08:00

Oh the, "we're having fabulous sex but are not dating" problem.. classic.

If you can handle it emotionally then keep sleeping with him... if you cannot, then don't.

Some questions for you:
- Are you currently pursuing anyone else?
- Would you be upset if he was fucking (sorry, for lack of a better term) another girl? (aside from the STD/gross part)

if you answered yes, then you might like him too much and are setting yourself up for disappointment.

ugh. If only friends with benefits could always work out.

Well if I were in your shoes I'd give dating J...

2009-11-18T09:51:46.545-08:00

Well if I were in your shoes I'd give dating James a try! He broke up with girlfriend...sex is amazing between you two...you're best friends...hello!!!

Eek! I've totally been there. I know what yo...

2009-08-29T20:04:16.615-07:00

Eek! I've totally been there. I know what you mean about hating to be that girl that guys screw but don't want to marry. It really is a shitty feeling. I had the same thing not too long ago and I eventually cut it off completely. It's not easy but it had to be done.

See, I knew I wanted a relationship. I knew I couldn't get one from him. Every time we had sex, I felt like crap. How dare I complain about this shitty feeling when I keep repeating the incriminating actions. I'm not trying to blame you & I never really blamed myself. Emotions are very complex and it is never a single thing that is to blame, but I basically concluded that the relationship I had wasn't worth it. Being stuck in something like that only distracts you from the open opportunities that lie ahead. And if you continue to be distracted, you'll miss your shot.

Keep your head up Gorgeous!
xo Anastasia B.

Ps. I love your blog. I can't wait to read more!

Ugh, I hate comments like that. I understand how y...

2009-07-24T09:17:15.017-07:00

Ugh, I hate comments like that. I understand how you felt when a similar comment was directed at me once.

Timing is everything...he could very well be miste...

2009-07-02T00:49:32.088-07:00

Timing is everything...he could very well be mister right, but not right now. You have to get all your naughty desires out of your system first before you see what he has to offer in the long run. Sure, he could make a great husband, a great father, a great provider and security, but obviously you don't want that yet. Just be careful you don't burn him too bad because in the future he may be lookin' real good and have moved on...

Every one of the girls I know that are after the &...

2009-06-30T14:02:26.432-07:00

Every one of the girls I know that are after the "bad boy" and are often single because of it have a friend like that, that no matter what still wants to be with them. A friend is basically Duckie (one of my favorite movie characters of all time) from Pretty in Pink. I can't speak on your experience as I don't know it, but most of the guys I know who are Duckie's eventually find a woman who feels for them the way that they feel for their Andie Walsh (Molly Ringwald). Sparks always eventually burn out. Good luck!

Hi!We have the same lay out on our blogs :) Hope y...

2009-06-27T08:05:26.780-07:00

Hi!We have the same lay out on our blogs :) Hope you have a great weekend. Stay away from the tequila!

Oh hun- Tequila is like the worst for making big m...

2009-06-25T20:54:40.508-07:00

Oh hun- Tequila is like the worst for making big mistakes. Particularly Patron- cause it goes down so smooth and you think- I can do like 10 more shots of this and not feel a thing. Weeee. And then you're on top of a bar- arm in arm with the bartenders at 3am after everyone has left- doing a kick line to New York New York. So I concur Tequila= Bad Scene!

thanks, this is actually a past situation in which...

2009-06-22T19:07:21.295-07:00

thanks, this is actually a past situation in which it did not work out (not sure how I feel about long distance relationships) but keep reading if you want to see how it did end up! :)

that's a rough situation...I'll refrain fr...

2009-06-22T09:12:01.048-07:00

that's a rough situation...I'll refrain from giving you my thoughts onlong distance relationships. I hope you are able to figure out whats best for you,

That is the first time I heard the term "eye ...

2009-06-19T16:02:51.484-07:00

That is the first time I heard the term "eye sex" and I like it...the only potential downfall would be if the person who is 'eye-fucking' you is cross-eyed and they meant to fuck the person next to you :)

(sorry, for the re-comment)

2009-06-19T16:00:56.532-07:00

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I also believe that girls think about sex wayyy mo...

2009-06-04T18:47:15.124-07:00

I also believe that girls think about sex wayyy more than once a day! I wonder who they polled... i def know that my friends and I think about AND talk about sex all the time everyday, every hour! lol great blog!

Men rarely make a single appearance in my life too...

2009-06-02T19:09:34.563-07:00

Men rarely make a single appearance in my life too...damn them.